Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Yes I plan everything
So Kendra and I were talking the other day and she had brought up Alden's first birthday. Of course I hadn't thought of it but maybe once. So she got me thinking about it. So I was doing some research on things for his b-day and can I just say they have so much stuff!!!! I think we are going to do an Elmo theme since he goes bannana's over Elmo. They have the cutest stuff ever. Now I am all excited about his birthday, which might I add is only 4 months away :) Now I have another thing I can plan and get all excited over.
Friday, May 8, 2009
Venting
Do you ever meet those people or read something that just pisses you off? I spent the last two days around a bunch of whiny women where nothing was good enough for them (not all just a few) and then I got to hear them all talk about how perfect they are. GRRRR I knew there was a reason I don't get along with all women.
Then I am reading this thing on the web about how women who feel that having a kid is hard at all are weak and aren't doing it right. I'm sorry, but it isn't that easy. It's so rewarding and I love my son and my family more than anything, but it's by far the hardest job I have ever had. I am constantly worried am I doing the right thing, making the right choices, is he eating the right thing, the right amount, am I producing enough, will I ever lose the baby weight. It makes me so mad when people go on and on about how there kid slept through the night at 2 months and they have never had so much as a runny nose. BITE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope your next one dosn't sleep through the night until they are 12. They talk about how women shouldn't be working and that the role for us is to be SAHM. I love working and I think I'm a better mother because of it. I know I am lucky to have a family member to take care of my son. I have a right to choose to stay home or work. Ok, sorry I just had to vent.
Alden is feeling much better. It was hard to be away from him for two nights. The training was pretty good, but I missed my boys. Tomorrow we are doing my mothers day and going to breakfast and the zoo. Then Sunday we are doing mother's day for our mom's. It is going to be a very busy weekend, I'm looking forward to it.
Then I am reading this thing on the web about how women who feel that having a kid is hard at all are weak and aren't doing it right. I'm sorry, but it isn't that easy. It's so rewarding and I love my son and my family more than anything, but it's by far the hardest job I have ever had. I am constantly worried am I doing the right thing, making the right choices, is he eating the right thing, the right amount, am I producing enough, will I ever lose the baby weight. It makes me so mad when people go on and on about how there kid slept through the night at 2 months and they have never had so much as a runny nose. BITE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope your next one dosn't sleep through the night until they are 12. They talk about how women shouldn't be working and that the role for us is to be SAHM. I love working and I think I'm a better mother because of it. I know I am lucky to have a family member to take care of my son. I have a right to choose to stay home or work. Ok, sorry I just had to vent.
Alden is feeling much better. It was hard to be away from him for two nights. The training was pretty good, but I missed my boys. Tomorrow we are doing my mothers day and going to breakfast and the zoo. Then Sunday we are doing mother's day for our mom's. It is going to be a very busy weekend, I'm looking forward to it.
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